Oh, Valentine's Day!

 We'll let me tell you how that went it was good, bad, and then good again. My friend came over with her granddaughter and babysat my kids.Which was really sweet of her considering she got remarried yesterday. We'll they'd been married years before divorced, got back together, and now remarried again. She been going through somethings also with their daughter I really feel sorry for her. My friend is my Mothers' age, but we get along. Today shes getting temp. custody of her daughters' kids. They through the book at her and put her in jail shes got serious charges coming at her. If she lucky she'll get probation! However, shes going to get jail time either way you look at it. Always how freaking dumb is it to protect a piece of shit man over protecting herself and her kids. Iam not saying shes not also at fault but come on...... at what point don't they understand what they do not only effects them it's like a chain reaction, now kids are without a Mother and The Grandmothers' watching the kids. It's just one big ugly mess, which I told my friend I would do what ever I could do to help her with watching the children. On top of that this guy she's so head over heels with let her ass and the other two people and ran. I hope they find his sorry ass really I do!
 He better hope I don't see him out I'll call in on him maybe even follow him so the cops can get him. I think at this point I have a special hate for guys like that "USERS IN AWAY"!  But the last thing I'll say about this is that some people have no business with kids if you can't take care of them. Give them to someone who will and love them!
Now I kinda got off the subject anyways I went out to dinner last night me and my better half. We went to a pretty nice place. I started to feel like I was on that show "Boiling Point" it was like where are the camera, or now where is Ashton, am I being punk'd no I am not famous,lol! We have patience really it took 2hours and a half to get our food I am not kidding. Come on it doesn't take a hour to get a salad, right! We'll I am not the person to complain about things and if I do you seriously suck at what your doing.Like if you ask for no pickles, they put pickles on your sandwich anyways, I'll just take them off and put them to the side. We sat patiently while the couple next to use went through a four course dinner. I am not a bitchy person but it was Valentine's Day! So I ask for a manager cause we couldn't even get the waiter over to the table long enough to get a check for our drinks. Really my better half wanted to walk out and not even pay, I'll say pretty mad.
So anyways the manager said your food is coming out right now. Just have it on me! I can't complain about a free meal, and who knows how long it would have took to get into somewhere else with a reservation.
   So we stayed ate some of it, I have to say my Lobster was really good but we where so full from drinking sweet tea, and wine. That we took most of it home with us. I guess that Patience is a virtue is true! Our tab was $65.00 and we got it completely free. Would I go back sure the food was good, but I am not going to want that waiter. I actually kind of felt sorry for the little guy he forgot our food and then another couple up from us he got their order wrong so the manager had to come out again. I hope he didn't get fired, I just think maybe they should put him on dished or something. Who knows maybe he was new, but two hours late on food not cool for me! We'll got some major work to be done! Until, next time!

chaos

So anyways bought a house and haven't had time to write or breathe for that matter! It's a fixeruper I just didn't know how much fixing I would have to do. Here I have a house with a house payment and can't move in. I seriously hope that I can get everything done before I have to pay another month of rent in this house. Man this is a crazy thing you know I wanted a house so badly and it's not that I'am ungreatful to have it, but this is alot of work!!!! Um, so many run on sentences Oh Well it's not like Iam writing for a English Lit. paper or I would so fell... Anyways myself and my worser half at the moment have almost killed each other the last couple of weeks. All this stress is getting to me work, work, and work after work. My better half really is working 10 hour days and coming home working on the other house "the one we bought" and we still haven't got everything packed Iam caving in like a nut! At this point I need a shrink!!!!
 I really wouldn't like to see Lowes or a hardware store again until I build my Pergola getting to much time from me. I love designing and decorating don't get me wrong but whoa! So I was talking to the guy mixing my paint and was trying to explain exactly what I was doing to my cabinet's he so didn't get! You know when you can't replace "Paint"! Either way I hope it comes out good cause I have to live with it until next year. I bought my youngest daughter today a really cute vintage rocking chair, it's never been touched no paint at all, guess what Iam painting it. Sure, its got the original little puppy dog on the back but the wood is fading! When I told the woman I planned on painting it I think she almost had a heart attack! So I found this really pretty green paint and I'am so painting it and painting her name on it to! But the good news is I only paid $20.00 a good buy I think!
Maybe I'll get to write some more this week if I'am not killed!